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Thursday, July 22, 2010

Providing "Value"

One of the most important things to a guy, beyond the material things such as making enough money to pay the bills, is to be recognized for the accomplishments, achievements, and contributions he makes to his organization, job, family, or community.

This is a fundamental need for men.  To have someone say, "good job", "we appreciate what you have done for us", or "you really made a difference", provides a man the lift he needs and the motivation to keep going.  The military saw this a long time ago, when some general came up with the idea of awarding medals for valor, courage, and contribution.  Think of it. A young man puts his life on the line, gets shot at, perhaps wounded, and undoubtedly scared out of his mind.  Shortly after this traumatic event that would send most people into a fetal position, a high ranking officer comes into his life and presents him with a small piece of colored ribbon, that costs less than a buck, and not worth anything to a pawn shop.  But to the soldier, it means the world.   As a result, he re-enlists when his contracted time of service is up.  Now obviously the medal is not the only reason that the soldier re-ups, but it is a key factor.  The man was recognized for what he contributed; for his value; for what he has given to the community.

In the civilian world, we do not have such medals, ribbons, and awards.  We do not wear our accomplishments on our chest.  Therefore  it becomes more important to pay attention to the day to day accomplishments and contributions that a man makes.

When something takes significant effort, recognition of the achievement, takes only a few considered words to ensure that the man will provide the same effort in the future.

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